Sunday, February 12, 2012

MY FIRST MORALS OF LIFE!!

Four years back, in October 2008 I had probably made the most important choice in my life. I chose to take up engineering in graduation with electronics and communication as my specialisation.At that point of time i knew very little about professional courses and career planning, I just wanted to become an engineer for the charm and privilege it carried more than the love for the subject.
                                          My graduation started off on a wrong note, with me meeting with an accident and being advised bed rest with a surgery that followed soon.I had no choice but to stay back at home and sit on my bed n wonder if this was all that I ought to do and experience in a professional course.But time indeed went by.Initially it was slow but it then flew faster and faster with every passing day and today right after four years I'm here sharing my experiences with life.
                                My four years of graduation were the most entertaining and important years in my life.This is not just because of my increase in number of friends but also because of those valuable lessons I have learnt .There are numerous angles to my life story of these four years.This is just one angle of what I am sharing with my readers in this particular article of mine.
                                          After my recovery from my accident and post accident issues, I regained my routine completely and i was finally back to college amongst friends and this time I was wiser than them since I had gone trough physical torture and still managed to be back on track.Not very far away was another rough phase in my life approaching me and I had no clue of it.
                                          My mother fell ill.The illness was prolonged and it was the most difficult time in my life.A mother is an angel who holds the house together and in my case my angel was off her duty.There had been times when I had to fake being brave just to support my dad and sister and not let them lose hope and at other times I would just break down in front of friends.This was the time, my academics went for a toss.And to my worries this was not the end, my mother's illness grew worse day  by day. 
            After days of struggle, there was finally some good news.The doctors had diagnosed the illness and then decided to start the treatment.Within weeks of treatment my mother began to feel better and this was truly heavenly to us.This made me brave and mature and i hadn't realised it.
           After my mother's recovery i had fallen sick and this did effect my academics even more.But that was meant to happen so it was inevitable.But once i got stronger, and out of my health issues i had many unfinished tasks and had to complete them.I had to fix my academics and morale, since at this time I was very low on both of them.There were many sleepless nights I went trough in these rough phases of my life.
               I had to fight back or lose my battle for confidence.I decided to give a fight and not let go of it.This was when I lost my grandfather whom I derive a lot of inspiration from.This was a blow for me but I decided not to be a coward and stood firm in fighting back.
              I fought back right from the bottom of my academics and then suddenly everything began to change.The bad days, the rough times and my opinion about life.I finally did manage to get back on track and academics and soon my confidence and morale boosted as well.This was when I realised and learnt the best lesson in my life.
                      
                          Life teaches you many such things that you would not have ever expected, the lesson you learn from your mistakes is way much important than the number of times you win.
          
                            I have evolved mentally in these crucial years and I'm glad I have managed to do so and I'm willing to learn even better things in future...and I don't regret anything that happened in my life in the last four years since i have fallen in love with my life!!
                
              

6 comments:

  1. Trusting God won't make the mountain smaller
    but
    it will make climbing easier.
    Hope you will be able to climb
    all your mountains always.
    Good Luck to u and ur academics...all the best

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  2. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.

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  3. life is a janarete is inner stamina when u cool its fully charjed because u disapointed ur stmena will mainted ur life.

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  4. hey nice profile of u..quite interesting...

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